DEAR ABBY: I'm a 12-year-old lady who has a problem with my mom. Once a week we purify a house, that is sincerely large. Even when we do a good pursuit on each room my mom never says, "Nice job," "Good work," or even a elementary "Thanks." It hurts my feelings since we conclude her for all a things she does for me. Am we wrong to wish or design compliments in return? -- NEVER THANKED IN OREGON
DEAR NEVER THANKED: No, you're not wrong. we don't know anyone of any age who doesn't crave certain reinforcement. Have we mentioned to your mom how this creates we feel? Because if we haven't, you're expressing your beating to a wrong person.
DEAR ABBY: I'm 15 and my kin have motionless they wish to have another kid. Shouldn't kin speak to their other children about this? None of us were asked for a opinion -- we were only informed.
Mom has had health problems roughly my whole life, so we had to grow adult intensely fast. we watched her have a seizure while we were out shopping, and she was mostly in a hospital. we don't wish another child to go by this, too.
When we contend something I'm told I'm being greedy and rude. This new baby is already desired some-more since my father hopes she will be improved than me. Am we wrong to feel this is unfair? -- UNHAPPY TEEN IN SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA
DEAR UNHAPPY TEEN: Fairness might not enter into it during all. The reason we and your siblings were not asked for submit about your mom carrying another child might be that a baby was as most a warn to your kin as it is to all of you. Your angry won't urge a situation, that might be because you've been told we need an opinion adjustment.
You contend we grew adult intensely fast. Well, it's time to accelerate a routine even more. This isn't a foe for your parents' love. I'm certain they adore all of we and they'd uncover it if we stopped being self-centered. Please give it some thought.
DEAR ABBY: Every year we send a holiday minute along with a nod cards. The minute customarily highlights events of evident family members from a past year. This year there is a problem.
Our 22-year-old son, "Dexter," is in jail on thievery charges associated to a drug problem. Many of a friends and kin already know about this, though others are not aware.
Our son's siblings are doing good and we like to news on their activities. However, we are confused concerning Dexter. We unequivocally can't send a holiday minute and leave him out, though conjunction can we fashion a story concerning his status. Telling a law would be informational though also awkward. We would conclude your advice. -- HOLIDAY LETTER WRITER
DEAR LETTER WRITER: Write a minute as we customarily would, and when we get to your jailed son, say: "Dexter has taken some time to rethink his future. He sends we all his love." You do not have to go into any some-more fact or elaborate a point.
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